My Man 30 Day Challenge

What if the next 30 days could change the way you show up in your marriage?

Remember when you and your husband couldn’t get enough of each other? The flirting, the laughter, the random affection, the excitement of simply being together?

Somewhere between responsibilities, routines, and everyday life, it’s easy to lose sight of the little things that once made your marriage feel so special.

I know because I’ve been there.

There was a season in my marriage when I missed the affection, attention, and connection my husband and I once shared. And instead of continuing to focus on everything I wished was different, I felt God leading me to do something different myself.

For 30 days, I made an intentional commitment to love my husband well.

I looked for opportunities to serve him, encourage him, appreciate him, make him smile, and show him love in ways that were meaningful to him. I also challenged myself to stop allowing complaining, negativity, and my own attitude to get in the way of how I treated him.

And LISTEN. The difference it made in our marriage!

Not only did I begin experiencing the affection, laughter, and closeness I’d been missing, but something even more important happened.

My own heart began to change.

Those intentional acts of love became habits that stayed with me long after the 30 days ended. And to this day, my husband still loves when I do this challenge!

That’s why I created the My Man 30-Day Challenge. To give other wives a practical, Bible-based way to become more intentional about loving their husbands.

What’s inside?

• 30-Day Guided Challenge: Daily opportunities to intentionally love, serve, encourage, and appreciate your husband.

• 30-Day Help Guide: Practical ideas to help you complete each day’s challenge.

• The Wife Game Plan: Practical guidance for the days when following through feels difficult.

• Scripture and Affirmations: Biblical encouragement to help you stay focused and intentional.

• Reflection and Prayer Pages: Space to reflect on your growth, pray over your marriage, and recognize what you’re learning.

• Daily Action Steps: Simple ways to put love into practice beyond just talking about it.

This challenge is for you if…

• You miss the friendship, affection, and excitement you once shared with your husband.
• You’ve gotten so caught up in everyday life that being intentional has taken a back seat.
• You recognize there are things you can personally improve in how you show up as a wife.
• You want practical ways to love your husband well instead of simply hoping things will change.
• You’re ready to spend 30 days investing intentionally in your marriage.

This isn’t about taking responsibility for everything that’s wrong in your marriage or trying to earn your husband’s love. It’s about becoming intentional with the part you can control: your own actions, attitude, and love.

Your husband’s response isn’t something anyone can guarantee, but the growth you pursue can be meaningful regardless.

Ready to become more intentional?

For the next 30 days, choose to love on purpose.

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